The Real Key to Success: What they don't teach you in school

Success means achieving your goals and dreams thought hard work, determination, and patience. It is not just about walth or fame, but also about personal growth, happiness, and making a positive impact.

The word that we see thousands of times on website , book pages, magazine pages, socail media pages and we hear many times from freinds and relatives and every one, is a word full of information and thinking ocean, which by writing thousands of books there is no word to except success, success and success.

Why did I write this article?

One day, one of my freinds and I were preparing a report about having goals and plans, and we heard the theories of dzens of people about goals and planning, and all of them said that next year they plan to buy a new car, buy a new house, go to university, or to boost his business and none of the people was whitout a goal.

It was very interesting to me that the report showed that all people are planning. But why research shows that only 10% of people are planning and planning. The principle of goal setting and planning is that we create something in our minds and implement it day by day, hour by hour.

I hope to write a comprehensive article about planning for you that will help you in planning for years and months.

What is success?

Brayan Touristy, " The writer of a well-known book, Give me a frog said "Successful and high-ranking people have clear goals, they know who they are and what they want to become. They write their targets and have a plan to acquire them. A goal that is not written down is an imaginary fantasy.

When we talk about success and a successful person, our mind goes to best, for example, the first score in the entrance exam, the best neurosurgeon, the best doctor, an inventor, etc. or a very rich man who was able to become very rich with very little money.

But I want to define another defination about success.

If we can do something to advance in life or even study in such a way that we feel happy and enjoy our life, it is success.

whit this definition, if some one reads a book 30 minutes a day, or instead of watching TV series or watching a movie, he/she reads the relevant lessons for 30 minutes and continue until the end. Surely a person will succeed and fell satisfied and happy.

Scientists believe that this good felling works like a drug and the more you continue this simpleand small task, the more the drug of success will secrete in your body and you will become an addict.

Why should we make plans for our life?

Suppose you are on a smooth road and you dont understand where the ends of the road reach, the more you continue, the more you get tired and hopeless. Life whitout goals is the same, you life every day,and your life becomes boring and hopeless. Sadness takes place in your life, so it is necessary that a person should make his life according to the purpose and plan.

One of the biggest problems facing humans is procrastination. It must have happened to you that you decide to do something (such as study or start a business and start a new chapter of your life) but you tell yourself: (There are only two days left in the week when the next week starts with I start work with alot of energy) but this next week or Saturday will never come.

Planning will reach us in apex of success in our life, when we decide to reach in a place, we should plan every day our life.

What things make us successful

we humans should make a suitable plan according to our life and also we should do some works to become successful. They are:

Firstlet's limit fleeting pleasures to a minimum such as television, watching movies and series, having fun on Facebook and Telegram groups, watching news and etc...

These things give us momentary and useless happiness, if we really understand, they are all useless and destructive hapit for us. We may not able to leave them all, but we can eliminate them by limiting them. For example, if we spend 3 hours a day on social networks, we can reduce it to 1 hour, or if you watch your favorite series for 1 hour every day, stop watching it.

Of course, don't be misunderstood, I don't mean to take away all the fun of your life, sometimes people need these things and sometimes they learn very important things.

Second don't leave anything for tomorrow. A beautiful sentence that I have written on the wall of my room."The best time to do things was yesterday and the next best time is today.".

If you want to do something, do it today,if you want today be the best day of your life, definitely do the things you like in the best way.

One of the technigues to succeed and overcome bad habits is to use the 30-day technique. In this technique, take a white paper and specify 30 bad habits and replace them with 30 good habits and make a table with the number of 30 days and every day you don't do the bad habits, draw a mark right above it as day. you will see that you succeeded.

The ways that we should observe to be successful

We should some rules to become successful in our life and they are:

Self Confidence

Mojtaba Khalilullah says a beatiful saying:" We can not change the direction of the wind, but we can adjust our sails and change our direction. "

When we realize the meaning of Mojtaba saying, we should do something and change some our habits to reach the best life

as soon as possible I will share a comprehensive topic about How to increase our self confidence.

Try

trying, trying is the only way we can reach in apex of success

We humans try to live in such a way that is the last day of our life and thing that there is no tomorrow.

What a beautiful speech Imam Ali has said:("Sometimes you have to run for thousands of hours to make up for a moment of neglect. If you started right then you wouldn't need to run").

By Lutfullah Fakhri • June 29, 2025